"I'm the ugliest girl I know!" Pink's response to her daughter

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Singer and mom-of-two Pink had a strong message for her 6-year-old daughter Willow at this week’s MTV VMAs, and it’s one we may in all probability all study from.

After a efficiency that had the star-studded crowd singing alongside — not to point out Willow, who was noticed in the viewers with dad Carey Hart — the “What About Us?” singer took to the stage once more to settle for The Michael Jackson Video Vanguard Award. Quite than test off a protracted listing of thank yous and achievements, Pink used her time to recount a latest dialog with her little girl.

“Not too long ago I was driving my daughter to college, and he or she stated to me, out of the blue, ‘Mama… I am the ugliest girl I know.’ And I stated, ‘Huh?’ And he or she was like, ‘Yeah, I appear like a boy with lengthy hair.’ And my mind went to, ‘Oh, my God. You might be 6. Why? The place is that this coming from? Who stated this? Can I kick a 6-year-old’s ass?’ However I didn’t say something, and as an alternative I went dwelling, and I made a PowerPoint presentation for her. And in that presentation have been androgynous rock stars and artists that reside their fact, are in all probability made enjoyable of each day of their life, and stick with it and wave their flag, and encourage the remainder of us. These are artists like Michael Jackson, David Bowie, Freddie Mercury, Annie Lennox, Prince, Janis Joplin, George Michael, Elton John, so many artists her eyes glazed over.”

“Then I stated, ‘I really need to know why you are feeling this manner about your self.’ She stated, ‘I appear like a boy.’ I stated, ‘What do you suppose I appear like?’ She stated, ‘Nicely, you’re lovely.’ I was like, ‘Nicely, thanks. However when individuals make enjoyable of me, that’s what they use. They are saying that I appear like a boy, or I am too masculine, or I have too many opinions, my physique is simply too sturdy. And I stated to her, ‘Do you see me rising my hair?’ She stated, ‘No, Mama.’ I stated, ‘Do you see me altering my physique?’ ‘No, Mama.’ ‘Do you see me altering the method I current myself to the world?’ ‘No, Mama.’ ‘Do you see me promoting out arenas throughout the world?’ ‘Sure, Mama.’ Okay. So, child girl, we don’t change, we take the gravel and the shell and we make a pearl. We assist different individuals to change in order that they’ll see extra sorts of magnificence.”

Pink closed out her empowering and shifting speech with a message instantly for Willow, who could possibly be seen listening in the crowd: “And also you, my darling girl, are lovely. And I love you.”

I gained’t even faux that I wasn’t a multitude of tears after watching that. What a strong message.

It’s a heartbreaking second when your youngster first sees herself as something aside from excellent and delightful. The primary time she stops and stares at herself in the mirror and questions if her thighs are too jiggly or her face is simply too freckled. Is she too tall or too brief? Too plain or too… completely different? All of this stuff which have at all times simply been a part of who she is immediately stand out as potential flaws. And it kills you as a mum or dad, since you consider with all your coronary heart that there’s not a single factor — not a hair on her head — that you’d change.

I’m 40 years outdated and I nonetheless bear in mind the very first time it occurred to me that my physique proportions appeared a bit off; not fairly what you’d see in . It began as a curious statement and shortly sufficient become a unfavorable definition of myself that lasted for many years. I hope that I’m simply now lastly escaping its clutches. I don’t need that for my ladies, I don’t need them to carry that round for therefore a few years.

I love that Pink spoke out about this, as she does so many difficult parenting subjects. She set out to empower her daughter, however I suppose her speech did us all some good.

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