My maternity go away was nearly over when I discovered my job was ending. The timing was fairly good since I nonetheless hadn’t discovered how I would stability a child with a part-time babysitter and a full-time work-from-home job. Though not working has made issues a little bit tight financially, finally it’s been value it to hang around with my little man, Jamie, all day lengthy.
All. Day. Lengthy.
So about that…
Each week, as Jamie will get older the times appear to get longer. He takes one or two quick naps a day which are prefaced with a half-hour of crying as a result of he doesn’t even need to sleep that lengthy. Final week, throughout one notably epic nap protest, I began to rethink discovering an workplace job.
It’s not his fault, in fact. Infants cry. When he’s fed, dry, and has been cuddled and entertained for a few hours, it does make me query my parenting expertise. What am I doing improper? Does he simply not like me?
I was actually attempting to determine what I was doing improper when I lastly obtained it. He was bored. Throughout the weekend, when my husband and daughter are house, Jamie is a cheerful camper. We’re operating errands, speaking loud, having a very good time, and Jamie is soaking all of it in.
Sitting at house along with his mama who doesn’t watch tv throughout the day who’s simply looking for pockets of time to scrub a little bit and get some writing completed is not any enjoyable for a little bit one.
There are solely so many books you possibly can hear your mother learn, and so many tummy time video games you possibly can play earlier than you go child mad. I knew this, and had deliberate to enroll in some lessons and actions when Jamie obtained older. I by no means thought that we’d be coping with him being bored at four months!
Jamie’s disposition has significantly improved during the last week. I made a couple of modifications to our schedule that appear to actually assist. After I drop my daughter off at college, we go straight away to go to a buddy or member of the family. I ensure to carry his stroller and blanket with me in all places so that we will go on a fast stroll in a unique neighborhood, or cease at a park and sit and play for a bit.
In only a few weeks we’ll be beginning a swimming class, and my husband urged trying into Gymboree or child signal language lessons.
Taking steps to banish my child’s boredom isn’t about spoiling him. It’s about caring for his wants and aiding his improvement. If Jamie desires to be stimulated, it’s my job to make that occur. The bonus is that I get to bond with my child on one other degree. Not solely that, the times don’t really feel so lengthy anymore!