Mother of 4 Elizabeth Bauer by no means imagined breastfeeding a baby that wasn’t hers — and but, that’s precisely what she ended up doing only a few days in the past.
On Friday night, Bauer’s buddy Hannah was visiting along with her Four-month-old daughter, Kaitlyn. The shut pals/neighbors had been hanging out when Hannah talked about Kaitlyn hadn’t been feeling nicely; her formula-fed baby wasn’t consuming very a lot in any respect. And when she did, most of it could come proper again up.
“I steered to her that she may strive a bag of my breast milk if she needed to, as a result of it would choose her stomach higher,” stated Bauer, who breastfeeds her 11-month-old son. “She stated that might be nice. We made her a bottle whereas they had been there and she or he requested me if she may take a number of baggage along with her for the night time to see how she does.”
(Elizabeth and Hannah with their infants. These Casper, Wyoming pals reside simply 5 homes aside.)
The following morning, Hannah introduced over Kaitlyn once more, saying that she was ready to maintain down the entire breast milk. Besides now she didn’t need her components.
“They had been heading to the grocery retailer, so she requested me if I might regulate her, and I requested her if she minded if I nursed her. And she or he advised me in fact she didn’t thoughts,” Bauer advised BabyCenter. “She began getting fussy whereas I used to be nursing my son, so I turned him after which had her latch on. She nursed for about 5 minutes and so they each fell asleep.”
Bauer snapped a photograph of the tandem-feeding infants after which determined to share her particular second with the Breastfeeding Mama Discuss Fb web page. “That is the primary time I’ve ever finished this,” Bauer wrote within the submit. “I’m so pleased I can nourish, not solely my son, however my pals daughter as nicely. Breast milk actually is liquid gold. It’s sitting on her abdomen so significantly better than components proper now.”
“I felt a spread of feelings … I felt nervous at first. Like, what if she didn’t need to nurse from me since I’m not her momma?” she advised BabyCenter. “I felt relieved when she did latch, which did take a minute. I had to squeeze milk into her mouth after which maintain her shut to me to get her to latch. As soon as she did I felt pleased that I may assist. I believed my son would possibly freak out, throw a match, however he simply stared at her. He reached his hand out and touched her head. He did nice! I used to be so pleased I used to be ready to latch each of them and nourish and luxury each of them without delay.”
As for her buddy Hannah? Belief was an enormous element within the association.
“My buddy didn’t appear hesitant in any respect,” Bauer stated. “She advised me she trusts me greater than anybody she is aware of along with her youngsters and she or he is all the time round — so she is aware of I don’t drink or do medicine that might have an effect on my provide in any means. She was pleased that I helped.”
Isn’t this picture simply too valuable? Reality be advised, I’ve solely ever breastfed my three youngsters. However I’d like to suppose I’d share my milk in a heartbeat if I ever discovered myself in an identical state of affairs. I like that this mama was ready to assist out her buddy’s little woman when she wasn’t feeling nicely. I’m additionally impressed that little Kaitlyn was ready to efficiently latch; that’s no simple feat.
Thanks, Elizabeth, for providing a glimpse into your very first wet-nursing expertise!
Pictures by Elizabeth Bauer